So you want to be a Dominatrix? Join the queue... #LessIsMore

This isn’t as risky it sounds,  I wasn’t and am still not interested in suspension or complicated Shibari bondage, at that time I didn’t dabble in medical practices either, I didn't even own a strap on. It was all good clean kinky fun. Stuff that came naturally to me. My love of acting came in very useful, ever since I played Alice in Wonderland in the school play,  I have loved dressing up and transforming into another character. Role playing was and is my first love. Sessions could also involve foot worship, slapping, spanking, golden showers,ball busting and good old tie and tease.

I was in my element, I loved being introduced to new fetishes, wrestling, electro play, trampling and meeting adult babies, cross dressers and sissies It was an amazing time, an education and so much fun. I was naughty though, New Dominatrices are sometimes like new vampires and run amok with their recently developed powers before they calm down and realise less is more. I was no different, a few heads were shoved down toilets! it took me a while before I learned whispering is more effective than shouting, a promise can be more powerful than a threat and more importantly being a Dominatrix is much more psychological than physical, I also realised I needed to buy some equipment and home my skills, I decided the place to go for this was New York Fucking City.